Dark chocolate or white chocolate?
Saturday, July 26, 2008
{ 12:31 AM }

Marriage , A promise & responsibilities , a piece of paper or just a child play?


To all the ladies, able to walk on the red carpet of the church with her MR RIGHT, is consider the most blessed gift she has received from the GOD. To the marriage couple, wedding is once in life time therefore they will alway put in their heart and soul in preparing their wedding. Making sure that it is a perfect wedding. To them, it is worthwhile to spend lots of money and time for their wedding. During the solemnisation, the couple will alway agree without much thoughts with whatever they were asked to promoise.

Wedding has always meant to be a joyous occasion but what's make it different in this 21st centery is that Marriage is no longer sacred.

A grant wedding of Branda and Brayan was finally held at a 6 stars hotel after 1 yr of preparation. Throughout that wedding day of theirs, they were really in love. The couple recieved blessings from all relatives, religion pastors as well as friends. 8 months down the road, both couple approached their religion leader for Marriage counselling. 2 months after, they were at the lawyer firm for divorce.

Liana has become a workaholic ever since that incident. To her, by occupying herself with lots of work is the only way for her not to dwell over that incident. Deposit has been made for the wedding dinner two months before the wedding. Wedding invitations of Liana and Samual were sent to all friends and relative one month before their wedding. Both Liana and Samual were all set for their wedding which will be arriving in one month time. 3 weeks before their BIG DAY, both of them were sitting infront of their pastor for a premarriage counselling at the church whereby their wedding will be held. At the end of the counselling, Samual made up his final decision. Samual who was a divorcee felt that he was not ready for a second marriage, he can't fullfill the responsibility of a husband therefore he decided to call off the wedding.


How will you react when you were at the solemnisation at wedding whereby one of the couple was a Divorcee?

Labels: chocolate, couple, marriage, responsibility

A Gift
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
{ 10:31 PM }

I consider myself as a blessed child as I'm born in a healthy happy family. There's strong bonding within my family, love & care are never missing in the family. Though I'm not brought up from a wealthy family, I'm grateful and appreciate for what GOD has given me, something which $$$ can never buy, FAMILY LOVES!!!

The pillar of my life? In fact there's two stages. In the earlier stage, the pillar of my life was an amazing lady, Ann. Ann was promoted as the soul of my life some years back and someone else became the pillar of my life, S. Throughout my life, I'm always relying on both of my pillars.
Have you ever imagine how a life be when the soul is no longer around? That's what exactly happening to me now.

Remember when i was a child, I'm always puzzled with my parents decisions. Finding them unreasonable and etc... I finally understanding their doings and appreciates it after being through so much obstacles in life.

There's a saying, it takes time for someone to recover from emotional pain.
Do u think that's really true. If you're in that position, you will never said that.
Easy said than done!
To me, i can only agree to a certain extend. Time is not the medicine for emotional pain, the real medicine is actually the person itself. It all have to depend on that person character and he/she's will power. Some people can just forget certain things within seconds while some takes years or even ever. Time does not work on me, that painful and helpless experience will always be there.

All families do have their own stories, no exception for me . A family is made up of parents & children going through ups & down together. My family and I indeed been through a terrible disheartening moments. It was a moments which left deep footprints in my life. A moment whereby i don't wanna forget as I'm afraid i will really get about it.

Living in this 21st century, a contemporary modern society, a fast busy lifestyle does caused me to overlooked certain things in life. City people tends to overlook the family issue due to our hectic lifestyle which resulted us for not being appreciative for what we have till it's gone.

I guessed, that incident had made everyone in my family grown up to be a much mature person, especially me!!!

Being brought up from a tranditional Chinese family, it is the Chinese beauty for not saying " I love you" out. Chinese is famously known for expressing their feeling for love through action rather than speech as Chinese believes that beautiful words are not sincere, sincere words are not beautiful.

GOD is always fair, we should appreciate the gift he given us. Treasure it and you won't regret even if it's gone.

LEt's learn to treasure and appreciate what we have in life!

Inspiration
Monday, July 7, 2008
{ 11:45 PM }

I have been living my life like a living corpse for quite some time or years, as in my soul is not complete, not sure where it has been. On a special occasion, i got to know this old man who is very knowledgeable and i personally find rather weird! I call him as a weirdo, ironically, I'm being enlighten by him somewhere or another. "Being a young adult, it will be a waste of youth if you don't have any achievement in life. Being a learner person, you should have a passion or interest to find out whatever is going on surrounding you, and it will definitely benefit you!!! " That's what the old man had said to me. You may think that what he had mentioned was typical and commonsense, but to me, it did hit me very hard because, there's another older man told me the same thing before this old man. That older man said" you are just wasting your youth, time won't wait for you."

What these two old men have said to me, inspired me greatly, I'm awake from my dream suddenly!!!

I have finally decided to work towards my goal now and not tomorrow. I know myself very well that i'm currently far far away from my goal,however it shouldn't stop me else i will never improve, always at the same point, never be able to achieve my goal, no matter is 10 or 20 years later !!!

It applies same to everyone, miracle doesn't appear suddenly, it actually appear gradually on people who have put it effort in their life. Like an old saying ," God won't help those who don't have themselves".
Is alright to make mistake but most importantly is to learn from mistakes, that's way of life!!!

My Dream, i coming , wait for me!!!