LOVE
Saturday, December 6, 2008
{ 12:18 AM }

It is disheartening to hear this,
"I don’t wanna to be my children burden, they hav their own family to take care, just let me die, stop spending money on my medical fees."
Why a parent can always give their best to their child but not the contrary?
When the children are still young, parents will always give them whatever they want, satisfy their needs. When the children are in their adulthood, they will approach their parent for $$$ when they r broke n their parent will never hesitate in helping them.

Julia, who is currently in her thirties, has No career No Relationship but GOD given her a good mummy. Someone who is in their thirties should be able to support themselves as well as the family but not for Julia. She’s currently still depending on her mummy who’s in her mid sixties. She’s spent more than she earn, moreover, she takes allowance from her mummy monthly instead of giving her allowance. The worst thing is, the mom is currently paying for her beloved daughter education fees (MASTER Course) which spent up her entire life saving.

I’m not sure whether should I cry or should I be happy for that mummy.
I just find it heartache.
Parents can always devote their best to their child but why the child can’t. It is all children responsibility to take their parents regardless that health conditions. If they are sick, the more you should take care of them and not complaint about the medical fee. It is very hurtful for the parents. We should always recalled the past, when we were young, when we were sick, not matter it is day or middle of the night, our parents will definitely rush us to the doctors . The medical feel may cost them a bomb, but they will never complaint but why when they were old, we as their child, complaint about their medical fees?

Ting can buy the latest mobile phone for her daughter, sending her kids to the best music song, bring them for holidays twice a year. When her mummy stays home watching tv daily, she will complaint that she’s wasting electricity, wasting money.

Mrs Wong who's in her seventies, spent 1.5 hours to travel to her son house once a week. Why does she need to do that? She travels all the ways is just to help the son to save money in employing a maid. She does the cleaning, washing n ironin of clothes for her dear son. The son does't live alone, he stays with his wife and a daughter.

OH MY God, what world is this.

I’m very hurtful to see all these but luckly my dear mummy will never get that treatment from me.